How to Understand That Your Boyfriend is Wally?

When I was a little girl I thought that Wally is a nice masculine short name that would make a perfect second name for all the sons of a person named Wally. Imagine: Charles Wally Banks or Michael Wally Stanford. Later I became aware of the fact that even George, Fred or Jack could also be Wallies actually. And they are not that plain as they may seem at the first sight. I have a great experience in communicating with Wallies so I’ll tell you how to understand that you are dating with one of them and escape right in time.

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When your partner doesn’t want kids.

It seems to you that it is right time to have kids. But for some reason your partner is against it and simply doesn’t understand you. Well, it happens. He even doesn’t want to talk about it and always tries to do his best to switch the topic. Many couples face the same problem. And of course your partner has dozen reasons to avoid the conversation. He is sure that you are not ready, you have no time, you have no enough money. In fact those reasons have nothing to do with reality.

Try to understand what are actual reasons your partner doesn’t want to have children. Probably he had family problems when he was a child, maybe he was abused and has no a role model to follow. Talk to him and try to find out what really bothers him at the moment. You never know what actual reasons of his decision are. Try not to be too demanding and impulsive otherwise it may damage your relationship. Your aim is to understand your partner and his position. Probably it might help you to move on.
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Dating a vegetarian

Dating a vegetarian could be difficult. Especially if you are a meat-eater. You simply can’t imagine your lunch without a grilled chicken or a chop. Well, not many vegetarians are crazy about what their partners eat (even though there are still many vegetarians can’t stand what their family members and friends prefer to eat). It is your choice to eat meat and it is her choice to eat vegetables. Anyway you can face some problems. So let’s see how you should deal with it.

Some vegetarians are crazy about their lifestyles. It means that it is really important for her what she eats. And inviting her to another restaurant you should get ready that she may really worry about how the meal was cooked, what they used and something like that.

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Rejecting your husband via your child.

It happens so that you may express your irritation and anger with your husband via your child. You may even not realize what’s going on and what actually causes this kind of irritation and frustration. You could be irritated by indecisiveness or manners of your husband. You are not attracted to him as it was at the very beginning of your marriage. You are bored and overwhelmed with family problems. You should take into account that it would be impossible to change your spouse. The only possible way to get rid of the feeling of irritation and frustration is to change your attitude. Try to be more reasonable and tolerant. Try to revalue your relationship.

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Falling in love with your therapist.

It seems like I fall in love with my therapist. Actually I’m sure that my feelings are serious. I’m not kidding you. And I have no idea what should I do in this complicated and confusing situation. I started to visit him eight months ago. It was my first experience of visiting a counselor and to tell the truth it was a little bit strange for me. For some period of time I couldn’t reveal my actual feelings and problems. It was challenging for me at the time. He seemed to me to be a bit arrogant and even indifferent. Well, in fact it didn’t surprise me. Anyway I didn’t like him much. I realized that probably he would be able to help me to cope with my problems. That’s why I decided not to give up and continued visiting him. Everything was okay for the first time. At least it seemed to me so. I realized that he was the only one who could help me and support.

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Training of Will

All barriers which prevent you from achieving your goals, becoming better and more successful or changing your life are in your head. Just look around you – do you really see someone who do not want you to become successful in life? If you do not, it means that the main enemy lives in your head.

One of the reasons you are still on then same place in your development is that you do not understand what the concept “will” really means. When you give promise that you will stop smoking or start joggling since Monday it is likely that your plan will remain a dream. If you want to cease everything in one moment you will be left with nothing. You should create a step-by-step instruction of how exactly you will start and what you will do next. Develop a strategy and follow it – this is the kind of will which leads to impressive results.

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Three Questions To Achieve Happiness

Any body is eager to be a successful person which gets what he wants and copes with all the obstacles easily. The fast rhythm of modern life requires more and more rapid responses and actions from us. The personal coaches and psychology specialists suppose that the clear goal and carefully planned logical method to achieve it are the key to success. If you are not satisfied with your status quo there is point in analyzing the current situation and considering you life first places. The following questions are aimed to help you to decide what you want and define the ways to achieve success.

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The Theory of Learned Helpless

Probably every owner of a business has at least once faced the following situation. The HR specialist have employed the qualified managers. The boss relies on the high proficiency level and hopes that they will raise his business like ancient titans. But some time later the new employees show poor results. The hires the assessment specialists but the last claim that the proficiency level and skills of the managers meet all the demands. But even at the first sight any psychologist will notice that the passivity and sluggishness of the employees is based on the control of the boss. The last is afraid that they would soon feel relaxed and start making numerous mistakes and allow themselves to leave the incomplete tasks as they are.

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Parenting an adopted child

Raising an adopted kid could be uneasy. And if you have decided to adopt a child you should take into account the problems you may face. If you have problems with an adopted child you just can’t refuse him. It is your kid and that’s it. So you should accept and treat an adopted child as your own. Actually you are the only one who bears responsibility. And all these examples when foster families refuse their adopted children are shameful. Needless to say that parenting an adopted child by beating him is beyond belief. Let’s see what are possible problems you may face raising an adopted kid.

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Canada Calls You

Canada is somewhere in the north – that was all I was able to say about this country before I have visited it myself. It is a wonderful land which impresses, first of all, with its vastness. It seems that Canada can provide so thing new to surprise you every time you visit it, and I am eager to return to this country as much has been left to discover yet.

It is more convenient to begin the travel across Canada with its Eastern part. From Toronto Pearson Airport you can go straight to the largest city in the country – Toronto. It is situated on the shore of the lake Ontario which as vast as a sea. There is plenty of sites worth visiting there – a castle Casa Loma, Chinatown, Parliament, Royal Pier in the harbor. The main site, of course, is Niagara Falls – you can go under it if you hire a boat. I also recommend taking “1000 islands” tour. You will travel in a boat along Saint Lawrence River across th4e national park and then moor at Kingston – ancient town with Victorian houses which is the former capital of Canada.

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