When your partner doesn’t want kids.

It seems to you that it is right time to have kids. But for some reason your partner is against it and simply doesn’t understand you. Well, it happens. He even doesn’t want to talk about it and always tries to do his best to switch the topic. Many couples face the same problem. And of course your partner has dozen reasons to avoid the conversation. He is sure that you are not ready, you have no time, you have no enough money. In fact those reasons have nothing to do with reality.

Try to understand what are actual reasons your partner doesn’t want to have children. Probably he had family problems when he was a child, maybe he was abused and has no a role model to follow. Talk to him and try to find out what really bothers him at the moment. You never know what actual reasons of his decision are. Try not to be too demanding and impulsive otherwise it may damage your relationship. Your aim is to understand your partner and his position. Probably it might help you to move on.
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Dating a vegetarian

Dating a vegetarian could be difficult. Especially if you are a meat-eater. You simply can’t imagine your lunch without a grilled chicken or a chop. Well, not many vegetarians are crazy about what their partners eat (even though there are still many vegetarians can’t stand what their family members and friends prefer to eat). It is your choice to eat meat and it is her choice to eat vegetables. Anyway you can face some problems. So let’s see how you should deal with it.

Some vegetarians are crazy about their lifestyles. It means that it is really important for her what she eats. And inviting her to another restaurant you should get ready that she may really worry about how the meal was cooked, what they used and something like that.

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Rejecting your husband via your child.

It happens so that you may express your irritation and anger with your husband via your child. You may even not realize what’s going on and what actually causes this kind of irritation and frustration. You could be irritated by indecisiveness or manners of your husband. You are not attracted to him as it was at the very beginning of your marriage. You are bored and overwhelmed with family problems. You should take into account that it would be impossible to change your spouse. The only possible way to get rid of the feeling of irritation and frustration is to change your attitude. Try to be more reasonable and tolerant. Try to revalue your relationship.

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Parenting an adopted child

Raising an adopted kid could be uneasy. And if you have decided to adopt a child you should take into account the problems you may face. If you have problems with an adopted child you just can’t refuse him. It is your kid and that’s it. So you should accept and treat an adopted child as your own. Actually you are the only one who bears responsibility. And all these examples when foster families refuse their adopted children are shameful. Needless to say that parenting an adopted child by beating him is beyond belief. Let’s see what are possible problems you may face raising an adopted kid.

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Naughty Kids

All newborns are sweet angels; at least their mothers will be sure of this fact. However, with time children often become naughty and aggressive with no visible reason. This aggression is not necessarily aimed at parents, it can be expressed in cruel treatment of toys and animals. Such strange behavior makes parents worry as they do not understand where it has come from.

If you have faced this problem, first thing you should note is that feelings can not be divided into normal and abnormal ones. If the emotion appears, it meant that it is natural and the right way of expressing it is just needed to be found. Crisis of kids’ aggression is at the age of 2-3 years, 6-7 and 13-14 years.

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