How to Understand That Your Boyfriend is Wally?

When I was a little girl I thought that Wally is a nice masculine short name that would make a perfect second name for all the sons of a person named Wally. Imagine: Charles Wally Banks or Michael Wally Stanford. Later I became aware of the fact that even George, Fred or Jack could also be Wallies actually. And they are not that plain as they may seem at the first sight. I have a great experience in communicating with Wallies so I’ll tell you how to understand that you are dating with one of them and escape right in time.

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Falling in love with your therapist.

It seems like I fall in love with my therapist. Actually I’m sure that my feelings are serious. I’m not kidding you. And I have no idea what should I do in this complicated and confusing situation. I started to visit him eight months ago. It was my first experience of visiting a counselor and to tell the truth it was a little bit strange for me. For some period of time I couldn’t reveal my actual feelings and problems. It was challenging for me at the time. He seemed to me to be a bit arrogant and even indifferent. Well, in fact it didn’t surprise me. Anyway I didn’t like him much. I realized that probably he would be able to help me to cope with my problems. That’s why I decided not to give up and continued visiting him. Everything was okay for the first time. At least it seemed to me so. I realized that he was the only one who could help me and support.

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Training of Will

All barriers which prevent you from achieving your goals, becoming better and more successful or changing your life are in your head. Just look around you – do you really see someone who do not want you to become successful in life? If you do not, it means that the main enemy lives in your head.

One of the reasons you are still on then same place in your development is that you do not understand what the concept “will” really means. When you give promise that you will stop smoking or start joggling since Monday it is likely that your plan will remain a dream. If you want to cease everything in one moment you will be left with nothing. You should create a step-by-step instruction of how exactly you will start and what you will do next. Develop a strategy and follow it – this is the kind of will which leads to impressive results.

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The Theory of Learned Helpless

Probably every owner of a business has at least once faced the following situation. The HR specialist have employed the qualified managers. The boss relies on the high proficiency level and hopes that they will raise his business like ancient titans. But some time later the new employees show poor results. The hires the assessment specialists but the last claim that the proficiency level and skills of the managers meet all the demands. But even at the first sight any psychologist will notice that the passivity and sluggishness of the employees is based on the control of the boss. The last is afraid that they would soon feel relaxed and start making numerous mistakes and allow themselves to leave the incomplete tasks as they are.

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What Is Good About Living in Big City

In little towns it is believed that people who have voluntarily moved to big cities are absolutely nuts. At first, I also found it difficult to understand why I need to replace living in a place where you know everybody and which you can cross from one end to the other within an hour with some polluted and overcrowded megalopolis where nobody is aware of your existence.

However, after moving to a big city I discovered one simple fact – life in megalopolis is not bad at all. It has its own positive features which make it always strange and never boring.

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