When your partner doesn’t want kids.

It seems to you that it is right time to have kids. But for some reason your partner is against it and simply doesn’t understand you. Well, it happens. He even doesn’t want to talk about it and always tries to do his best to switch the topic. Many couples face the same problem. And of course your partner has dozen reasons to avoid the conversation. He is sure that you are not ready, you have no time, you have no enough money. In fact those reasons have nothing to do with reality.

Try to understand what are actual reasons your partner doesn’t want to have children. Probably he had family problems when he was a child, maybe he was abused and has no a role model to follow. Talk to him and try to find out what really bothers him at the moment. You never know what actual reasons of his decision are. Try not to be too demanding and impulsive otherwise it may damage your relationship. Your aim is to understand your partner and his position. Probably it might help you to move on.
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Dating a vegetarian

Dating a vegetarian could be difficult. Especially if you are a meat-eater. You simply can’t imagine your lunch without a grilled chicken or a chop. Well, not many vegetarians are crazy about what their partners eat (even though there are still many vegetarians can’t stand what their family members and friends prefer to eat). It is your choice to eat meat and it is her choice to eat vegetables. Anyway you can face some problems. So let’s see how you should deal with it.

Some vegetarians are crazy about their lifestyles. It means that it is really important for her what she eats. And inviting her to another restaurant you should get ready that she may really worry about how the meal was cooked, what they used and something like that.

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