How to Understand That Your Boyfriend is Wally?

When I was a little girl I thought that Wally is a nice masculine short name that would make a perfect second name for all the sons of a person named Wally. Imagine: Charles Wally Banks or Michael Wally Stanford. Later I became aware of the fact that even George, Fred or Jack could also be Wallies actually. And they are not that plain as they may seem at the first sight. I have a great experience in communicating with Wallies so I’ll tell you how to understand that you are dating with one of them and escape right in time.

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Rejecting your husband via your child.

It happens so that you may express your irritation and anger with your husband via your child. You may even not realize what’s going on and what actually causes this kind of irritation and frustration. You could be irritated by indecisiveness or manners of your husband. You are not attracted to him as it was at the very beginning of your marriage. You are bored and overwhelmed with family problems. You should take into account that it would be impossible to change your spouse. The only possible way to get rid of the feeling of irritation and frustration is to change your attitude. Try to be more reasonable and tolerant. Try to revalue your relationship.

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The Theory of Learned Helpless

Probably every owner of a business has at least once faced the following situation. The HR specialist have employed the qualified managers. The boss relies on the high proficiency level and hopes that they will raise his business like ancient titans. But some time later the new employees show poor results. The hires the assessment specialists but the last claim that the proficiency level and skills of the managers meet all the demands. But even at the first sight any psychologist will notice that the passivity and sluggishness of the employees is based on the control of the boss. The last is afraid that they would soon feel relaxed and start making numerous mistakes and allow themselves to leave the incomplete tasks as they are.

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Gentle Break Up

Every time we start a new relationship we hope that it will last long or even forever. However, love is unpredictable, so the one, who was the closest person to you, can become an undesirable person in your life one day. If you decide to break up with your partner, it is essential to make it as gently as possible in order not to hurt his or her feelings or cause psychological trauma by some rude words.

First of all, prepare the speech as break up is not a proper time for improvisation. It requires a through choice of words, so one or two rehearsals before crucial moment will be only for the better.

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First Call – the Beginning or the End of Your Relations

There is quite a number of articles telling us about the importance of the first date and providing useful tips on how not to make this date the last one. However, the first step in relations is actually not your first evening together but the phone call you make to invite somebody you like to a date. Much depends on the fact whether the first phone conversation will be a success or failure, so you should observe some simple rules of the phone etiquette.

The first and probably the most important rule is to be brief. Do not continue the conversation on and on and end it soon after delivering your message. It will produce an effect that you are busy, and the girl will value your time spent on this phone call more. Be the one to end the conversation in order not to appear annoying or intrusive and make a girl want more of your attention.

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